The Sooner You Get This, The Sooner You'll Come Unstuck
A Dose of Wisdom To Get You Reflecting...
By Kris Deichler, Associate Partner & Mentorship Coach, Lighthouse International
If you've ever been in a rut, unhappy or dissatisfied with your life situation and the way things have turned out it can seem confusing, even daunting to figure out how things might start to improve. The tendency so many of us have is that we start looking for someone or something, either now or in the past, to blame for why we have ended up where we are. Doesn't that just turn us into a victim though? Do we really want to be at the mercy of people and events outside our control for the rest of our life? In this clip Oprah Winfrey shares a simple but powerful truth that we all need to realise and accept if we are ever to really take control of our lives; to build, repair, heal and improve the relationships and situations around us...
The danger here is that we misinterpret this message to mean we must now take on life single-handedly and become 'ruggedly individual'. That is definitely not the case. Every legend will tell you that working well with others and getting the right support is vital to our success. Being responsible means that however well we deal with life situations and the quality of our relationships, is ultimately the direct result of our own attitude and choices, not anyone else's.
Feeling stuck in a rut?!? If so, then this article will help you with the question many of us struggle to answer - What Are You Doing With Your Life?
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